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Hello :)
I am having a hard time getting this thing started. I dont know what to say to attract a decent man. It is surely a challenge to get through all of the people who are only looking for fun. I am looking for a partner that is wanting to have a real relationship. Marriage is not important to me at this moment, but I would rather be with someone who is open to it. I do not have and cannot have them. I dont know what the future will hold as far as adoption. Right now, I am happy with my two cats. I love and adore.However, I feel that I would do better with a man that has no.I like to spend time with my man and I dont want to get locked into a situation where a man answers to his ex wife and that his are taking up all of his time. It may sound selfish, but I have been burned in the past. I dont care if you have been married. I was married for 6 years myself.
I have a job that I adore. I am a preschool teacher at a local school. I have been doing it for 3 years now. Before that, I worked retail for + years. I used to smoke a lot of pot and drink with friends. At this point in my life, I am interested in neither. I am looking for the same. A guy who does not single housewives looking friendship norway girls smoke pot, cigarets or drink. I am not a spiritual woman. I more loosely follow my own version of spirituality. I look for guidance in Buddhism and poly-theism. I would not do well with a religious person. I also swear like a sailor but I know when not to.
I am a big woman. I am working hard to lose weight and have better health. I am still mobile and able to be active. I just need to get rid of my belly and butt lol. I am smart, funny, honest, crass, nice, witty, and loving. I am very passionate about many things. I consider myself an advocate for people who are treated less than equal. I VERY much support gay rights. I believe it is our duty as humans to take care of each other and our planet. I am by no means perfect, but I try my best to be a supportive, open minded and giving person. and have a very special place in my heart.
I own a house (AKA a 5th wheel). I live in it with my 2 cats. I like living in a small place and taking up less land. I live in a nice park and I take care of my house. It is not what you would expect. I own my own car. I like to go out with my friends and have way too much fun. I LOVE camping, swimming, reading, crafting, watching movies, nerding out over Doctor Who, traveling and a lot more. I love the Bay Area. I grew up there and still have family who live there. I really enjoy the small town, lots of trees, one with nature living that takes place in Grants Pass, but I also love going to a big city. Getting swept away in a large crowd, looking up at the sky and seeing giant towering sky scrapers loom overhead. However, I am always happy when I can get back to my quiet house and settle in between the trees.
I dont know if anyone has read this far into my ad. I hope so. I really am excited to meet people and make connections. The only other things I have to say are the the things that I need in a man. I am in my mid 30s. I am looking for someone near my age. Say 32-42? You must own your own car, not live with your parents, ex or anything like that, not have , no smoking, drinking is ok (just not in front of me), no , have a full time job, be a positive person, be accepting and understanding of people and things that are different, love music and are a nice, happy person. :) I am not expecting perfection. If you like what you read and you want to reply, I am open to talking. Who knows, maybe something I am not interested in may take a back seat to your personality. Dont be afraid. I am shy up front but then you cant shut me up. Take a leap. What is the worst thing that can happen?
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