Single housewives looking friendship women sex I'm here, under your tree I hear your futile mutterings. All the good ones are either married or gay. You have come to that conclusion. And I am here to tell you that you are absolutely RIGHT, with one exception. There is one soul left in this dog pound. Big brown eyes, very friendly, had all his shots. And yes, free to a good home.

More good news: I'm really, truly single! Not looking for any sidedish action. No need for secret numbers or forbidden hours to . Let's face it, ladies, an awful lot of the chuckleheads on this site are looking to just expand their horizons, sort to speak. You probably have already met a few. And there are no pictures of my motorcycle (since I don't have one) . I have no semi-naked pictures of myself. And my age are all ACCURATE.

I am like no other. I am kind and gentle, yet passionate and bold. I am highly principled but not judgmental. I am very slow to anger, and very quick to compliment. I walk to the beat of a different drummer -- and individualist who isn't concerned with fitting in. I am me. Take me or reject me on the entirety of my person. Be as passionate or as docile as you wish to be, just treat me with the truth. If I am not right for you, just tell me, no troubles, no problems. Coresspondingly, if you like what you see and/or hear, tell me that too. I am too old for guessing games.

My two marriages both ended tragiy. The first one -- at death did we part. I held her in my arms as she passed from this world to the next, a victim of cancer at the old age of 24. I lost my second wife to some schmuck in the Navy. Each left me with one kid, they are now 18 and 12. Seeing their development and prosperity gives me solace that somewhere I got something right somewhere. I am as grateful for that as I am the fact that I still need haircuts. If kids are a negative issue for you, please hit the delete key now, gently, while I'm not looking.

Glad you're still here. There, we already worked through our first mini-crisis. Broader and bluer skys are ahead.

I seek to find someone whom I can treasure. Not just to "have a good time" with. You can find plenty of willing participants at your local bar for that (where you will never find me). I have never had and never will have any substance abuse or anger issues. I have never had scrapes with the law, although I may be on the run for a few parking tickets, to which I will plead insanity. Perhaps you have now noticed my dry sense of wit.

Professionally, I am a ghost writer. No, nothing to do with spooky things, but I have written many things for other individuals. I have written speeches, articles, op-ed pieces, etc, for dozens of United States senators and two vice presidents. Oh, maybe indeed that is a spooky thing. I have two books written, one still in print, and and finishing up another. The latest book is a ghost-written autobiography for one of the former great Cleveland Browns. However, until royalties start coming in, I have no shame in doing whatever schmucky job necessary to keep the bills paid.

I am also a keyboard musician. Been playing for 46 years now, which is quite an accomplishment considering the fact I'm only 34. And a half. Sort of. Just can't get that math to work. For some reason I absorbed the intricacies of music theory at a very young age and mastered college-level music theory classes before I made it to high school. I enjoy playing and teaching theory classes. My tastes in music reflect attitude toward life: while I marvel at his genius, I am not a hyper-self-introspective such as Beethoven, but rather in search of rich harmonies such as those exquistely penned by the great Richard Carpenter.

I wish to be with someone who compliments me, not completes me. I wish her to be confident in herself enough and estorgen-balanced enough to revel in her imperfections and find the humor and irony in mine. Pepsi drinkers will be considered on a case by case basis, as I own stock in Coke.

My fellow XY chromosomed compatriots need to realize that being with a woman is not a right, but a privilege. Would I have that privilege with you? Contact me, and we'll tread the deeper waters together. Certainly, please, a picture would be appreciated, as I already have enough imaginary friends. Disclosure on mine: they range in date, some going back a few years, but the first picture is the most recent (within a few months). I have been told that I look younger in person than in those pictures. So if those pictures don't cause you to run out the back door in terror, hope springs eternal.

But seriously, I have also learned over the years that as we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down might very well do so. Whether unintentional or not, it will happen. Your heart will be broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. Learn from that and don't judge ALL because of ONE. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love.

And good advice... Seek the roses along the way.. but beware the thorns. Know that anger is a waste of energy and will drain you, leaving you bitter. Those who hurt you, will eventually do harm at their own hands. Put it to rest, and prefer the dawn of a new day, as it has a deliberate, just way of 10-folding those whose intent is a deliberate injustice to your well-being.

So don't be afraid! Fear is only what there is to be afraid of; what we tell ourselves. Our minds are very powerful.. so live hard, love complete and get out there!! Take too many pictures, take a risk, laugh too much, and for the right person love with a strong passion, like you've never been hurt. And remember... every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back. Finally and most of all... love yourself.. because if you can't nobody else will be able to either therefore shutting out the inner beauty that we all inherently possess. :)

Recently, I received this email. I think it speaks volumes..

While a man was polishing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times; not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.

When the child saw his father.....with painful eyes he asked, 'Daddy when will my fingers grow back?'

The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times. Devastated by his own actions.......sitting in front of that car married looking casual sex Spokane he looked at the scratches; the child had written 'LOVE YOU DADDY.'

The next day that man committed suicide. Anger and Love have no limits; choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life..... Things are to be used and people to be loved.

If interested, I'd love to hear from you. There are plenty of guys with bigger bank accounts, bigger biceps, and, believe it or not, funnier jokes. But no one will treat you better. Please put I'm Real in the title line so that I know you're the real deal. Thanks so much for taking the time to read all this. Married looking hot sex Leavenworth

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